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WANNA RECEIVE MORE, WANNA RECEIVE FASTER? SURRENDER

Hoooo mama, this one is one of those juicy | crunchy | infuriating but also freakin’ amazing things that NEVER gets old.

How many times is too many times to surrender? NEVER.

When is a good time to surrender, let go, lean into trust and faith? ALWAYS.

When do you know you should hold your hand up to your own self like a stop sign and refuse to make a damn move UNTIL you surrender? EVERY single time you notice you’re not where you wanna be and some part / any part of you is holding on or attached to ‘having’ or ‘needing’ to be there!

When should you kick your own booty like CRAZY and start tearing some strips off a bitch (you) because you’re completely full of shit about whether or not you ARE in attachment??

I think you already know the answer

And here’s the deal, okay?

EVERY single person who has got to where you would love to be, whether that be relevant to a tangible result or outcome in their life, whether they are rockin’ the flow-led rich bitch luxe life, or whether it’s more (and this is the good stuff, obviously) that they embody that something something you can’t quite put your finger on but which represents the intangible essence of a person owning ALL of the all that they are, lemme tell you –

At some point along the way they learned to damn.well.surrender.

And often? They GOT to learn it a few times over before it finally dropped TF in. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had high level badasses who happen to be my clients want to rip my head off because they came to me fraught with despair or frustration over something that STILL hadn’t shifted, or, more infuriatingly still, had returned, and I hit them with that one word they REALLY didn’t wanna hear again, SURRENDER.

I swear I would have validly feared for my life a few times if it wasn’t that technology separated us haha. I’ve often felt the energy of somebody wanting to reach through their computer screen and punch me, and in fact, famously, one of my Inner Circle private clients when he first joined introduced himself to my other clients with the kind side note of “I’m sure, like many people here, you want to reach through the computer and punch her at first”. Hehe. You are welcome. But don’t be surprised if I just KEEP on saying shit that drives you mad BECAUSE I WILL KEEP ON SAYING IT TIL YOU FINALLY GET TO FULLY LEARN THAT LESSON.

And here is how I usually explain it:

You WILL ‘get’ to keep on learning the lesson until you learn it. So, if you feel like “I shouldn’t have to go through this again, I already DID the surrender thing”, well – get over yourself! Or, to be more specific / action based: decide that you’re done learning it now, which means – actually follow through!

So what does it mean to surrender, and how exactly is this linked to money? Well the truth is that it’s linked to receiving or ‘getting’ anything. When we hold on tightly to an idea that we need or desperately want something, often because some part of us feels that having this thing would make or allow us to in some way be enough, be safe, be happier, or finally be ‘there’, whatever ‘there’ means to you, then we actually push that thing away. We make it hard to obtain or come by or receive or to integrate into our beingness. And, if we do manage to get hold of some little bit of it, we typically quickly lose it again.

Have you ever experienced that? Money, or some other thing that you finally SEEMED to be gettin’ hold of, slipping through your fingers?

It’s NOT because it’s not available. The opposite! It’s because some part of you either believes you don’t really ‘get’ to have that, or that it comes at a great cost, or that YOU NEED OR HAVE TO HAVE IT IN ORDER TO BE HAPPY, WHOLE, SAFE, FREE, ‘THERE’.

Etcetera

So that’s the ‘why’ of surrender … and I’d suggest you have a bit of a think about where in ALL of all of your life do you need to let go in order to allow … but how about the HOW of surrender?

It’s a bit of a funny one, because oftentimes people actually get attached to the idea of having to, well, not be attached! They worry about whether they’re surrendering properly to receive, and they end up NON-surrendered about surrender! I guess we can just write that one off as being human AF

So the how is simple, really, as all things are in the end:

You decide.
You decide daily, or even more often. (The way I would do it is just whenever it comes up, comes through, is shown to you, you feel that little inner nudge or whatever … consider it basically as a reminder to self to ahhhhhh, breathe out. And let go again).
You follow the decision with action. The action might be partly internal, such as saying inside your head, or just feeling into ‘I let go’, ‘I hand it over’, ‘I trust’. Think of it like placing an order at a restaurant, once you placed it you TRUST that it will be delivered, you expect the food to turn up, you don’t then sit there anxiously worrying about it, or going in to the kitchen to try and oversee the damn situation! For multiple reasons, that would not be a good idea. Instead, what do you do? You come back to the NOW. You come into presence. And you do whatever being present in the moment would be.

Exactly like that is what you must do when it comes to handing over and trusting relevant to money, or to anything. You consciously choose to let go, and then you ask yourself, as far as practical action / follow on:

What would trust do?
If I had handed it over, and I really believed that money is gonna show up for me, because I PUT MY ORDER IN and asked for it, and I trusted that I could trust myself to then take whatever action I am meant to take and that I ALWAYS make the right decision … what would my next move be right now?

And then you do it.
Tune in to get the next one.
And so on.

That is the PRACTICAL side of surrender. As far as the feel of it, honestly? Don’t worry about it or GO LOOKING for it. The feeling will click in to follow the action. But loosely, what surrender feels like?

Is breathing TF out, and knowing you are taken care of.

Still desperate to feel it?? Quit looking at it backwards. Act as though the feeling is there, and allow who you are choosing to be to allow that feeling to show up.

Action / Journal Prompt:

What would I ask for if I trusted and knew that what I feel inside of me is real, available, available for me, available for me NOW, and if I also knew I can trust in HANDING IT OVER?

If I HAD handed it over, and I was in allowance and trust, what would my next move be? And then? What else?

Don’t worry about coming up with a whole list, the only moment you have to live right now is this one anyway. Just be sure you’re living it.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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