THE THING WITH DESTINY

Are you willing to wait to have it all?

A lot of the time which is wasted and lost, along life’s journey and on the pathway to creating your dreams, is as a result of a flustered ‘I must have it now!’ energy; one which takes you OFF path, out of alignment, and further away from what you want.

Let’s talk about the concept of destiny for a moment, and what it is that’s divined for you.

I know you may be an absolute expert at tuning in, figuring out what’s what, ‘seeing’ the future and then setting out to create it yourself like some sort of puzzle-master, but the thing is with DESTINY –

With living into a calling, a purpose, the ‘life you were born for’ –

You don’t gotta do jack SHIT to make that happen, do you?

Actually.

ACTUALLY, one of the most finite and certain laws of manifestation is that ‘there is nothing you ever need to do’.

Of course, alongside of this truth, is the truth that there is ALWAYS action to take and take it you must, however that is an entirely different thing from MAKING THE FUTURE HAPPEN.

If it’s meant to be,

And it’s destiny,

And it’s just what is written,

Then why on earth would you need to pre-plan or consciously construct the damn thing?

Why too would you ever need to WORRY about it, it’s either written and done, or no, so what good does it do to mentally and energetically try to hold the whole damn thing together?

Answer:

None.

It does no good.

In fact, if you think about it, it is actively COUNTER-PRODUCTIVE to try and make your future happen, particularly in the way which is so easy to slip into, which is with a sort of forced and frenzied energy.

“I gotta have it now, I gotta fix it now, I gotta get there now, I gotta prove myself now, I gotta free myself now!”

It’s this sort of energy which causes people to do things like embark on wild and drastic and ridiculous diets, rather than simply staying the course with the basic stuff that works. You know the kind of diets I mean – the kind that end up blowing up in your face as you self-destruct your way even further down than where you started.

It’s the FRENZY energy which causes people to post all manner of disconnected ra-ra nonsense all over their socials or on their website or to their email list, frantically trying to stir the pot, or get a response, or just eek out some MONEY, aware the entire fucking time that what is actually happening is a continual spin spin spinning on the hamster wheel and you NEVER GET OFF.

People in this energy have this frantic FEEL to them, their eyes are birdy and beady and graspy, their content feels … jittery-making or aggressive … they seem to say all the right things but something is missing.

There is no groundedness.

No SOUL.

No feeling of connection, to truth, to depth.

No ROOTS.

And in that person’s bank account?

No money, or very little.

Because the people who you’re trying to impact don’t respond to FRENZY or FRANTIC or “fuck, I better whip some shit together and flog it to ya”.

Surprise surprise. lol.

The frantic and frenzied energy is the same energy which causes people to fall into dating situations or, God forbid, more, which they damn straight know from the get go need a stop put to ’em. But – “what if I don’t find someone?”, or “but I just really want someone NOWWWWWWWW”!

And so they ‘make it work’.

They cover their eyes and ears and la-la-la their way past all the obvious and certain red flags.

They REFUSE TO STAY THE COURSE.

And to wait on what is right, aligned, divined.

Again, consider –

If you know it is aligned, divined, and meant to be, then please, for the love of God, WHY WOULD YOU NEED TO TRY AND MAKE IT HAPPEN?!

Now think about this –

It’s your making it happen which makes it NOT happen.

Because the moment you go into ‘how do I make this work’, in any area of your life, you take yourself AWAY from that single-minded focus where you have your eyes locked on the horizon,

The vision locked in,

And you’re simply ALIGNING TO SAID VISION.

Which is actually what the entire damn live your dreams / have it all / be who you’re meant to be and live your DESTINY thing is all about.

The entire thing is simply a process of ALIGNMENT.

You’re either aligning to something –

Or away from it.

And do you know what’s inherent to this whole process?

No need to pretend you don’t, and no need to get grumpy at me either, yeah I KNOW we have talked of this before and guess what girl – there’s a reason for that!

TRUST.

Alignment inherently contains trust. The process of moving ever further INTO alignment. And also the state of being in alignment. Let’s not forget, too, that being in alignment can never be a steady or ‘done’ state, it’s about continual adjustment. Just like how a plane is always off course and yet it arrives at its destination. Because it is continually aligning.

Are YOU?

Here is the thing with destiny –

Yes, you will need to ‘be the person’.

You will need to ‘do what it takes’.

You will need to show up, do the damn work, ALL of it.

But none of this is about moving into some sort of overly hyped up rara ‘now I’m gonna make it all happen, just watch!’ energy.

Sometimes for sure it may be about PUSHING, going HARD, of course. That’s some of the most fun stuff!

But sometimes,

And what I’m trying to say here mainly today,

It’s about waiting.

Because here is the one thing we’ve not yet said:

If there’s nothing you ever need to do, to create your outcomes, but yet there is always action that can be taken, well, then, what the frick are you meant to do and how do you know?

And the answer is simple:

You tune in.
Moment by moment.
And you ASK – 
“What am I meant to know, understand, act on, or choose right now?”

What’s happening here and why so many of you continue to fail to reach your dreams is that when the answer comes back WAIT, or be STILL, or do NOTHING, you DON’T.

You don’t believe it.
Or you don’t want to hear it.
Or you’re too FEAR led to be able to handle it.

And so instead you go and stir up a whole lot of muck and nonsense, clouding the vision and automatically taking you OFF path and into the swamp, from whence many of you apparently seem to NEVER desire to return.

If you nodded your head when I said ‘alignment inherently contains trust’, then you would know that that also means trusting when guided to wait.

Because in the end, you either believe it’s meant to be and so there IS nothing you need to do except for to use this moment right here for what you are SHOWN it’s for, or?

You’re gonna have a helluva busy and exhausting life.

As you chop and hack and thrust your way through the jungle of life, being the hardest pushing and most gung-ho one of all.

When the whole damn time the path of flow was just a metre or two away.

And today I urge you:

Don’t be that person.

Your DESTINY depends on it.

Instead?

Say yes to trust.

Use each moment ONLY for that which you are shown it must be for.

LISTEN, to what’s coming through you.

And STFU with your fear-mind drivel about why you can’t possibly, what if this, and what if that.

WHAT if you knew you were taken care of,
And that all you had to do was be you?

Remember,

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

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