QUITTING THE DO-BITCH LIFE

The reason you’re not there yet is you still don’t choose all of you.

You choose a version, a greyscale version, a photocopy of a photocopy of a photocopy version, you do a form of your messaging and art which is something like something like SOME sort of thing which vaguely represents the ALL in thing you’d be doing if you believed you already WERE the damn thing.

Believed?

CHOSE.

Ain’t got nothin’ to do with BELIEF, actually, unless in that you understand belief follows your faith-led action and jump-off-the-cliff-shrieking CHOICE.

To add insult to injury, with all your cheap knock-off creatin’ of your OWN FREAKING PURPOSE WORK, you also play the game of puppet-on-a-string-ing yourself.

“I better do this lil dance move over here even though it’s the furtherest thing ever from me being me but if I don’t then the peoples might not like and follow and payyyyyyyy me!”

“Let me just spend a minute hopping back and forth over there because all the other kids are doing it and if I don’t I might DIE!”

“Give me 10 … (years) … while I just fuss around with that complicated construct that SURELY I HAVE TO GET ON TOP OF IN ORDER TO BE ALLOWED TO BE FULLY ME AND LET THE WORLD SEE ME, and then, and then, and then …”

And then?

What, you think that continuing to dance like a shiny puppet for pennies and pats on the head and peanuts popped into your fat little cheeks, as a way of somehow gettin’ to where you’re set free and allowed to just BE –

is an actual thing?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH YOU’RE EXTRA CUTE WHEN YOU’RE STUPID BABY.

Does a person who BY THEIR OWN CHOICE opts in for the do-bitch life ever become someone who is allowed to just BE, and REIGN in their sovereign truth, and allow what’s in them to impact others simply through their PRESENCE?

Does a jump through hoops performer ever become the diva who is the star of the show and ALWAYS gets what she wants, desires, needs?

Well, yeah. Sure. Of course. IF THEY CHOOSE IT AND THEN FULLY CUT TIES WITH THAT OTHER LIFE, BURN IT TO THE GROUND, SHED AND SHRED IT RUTHLESSLY AND SAY ‘I NEVER KNEW YOU NOR WAS ACTUALLY OF YOU’, ETC ETC, BUT –

who actually does that?

Hardly ANYONE.

No no, the lines have already been drawn and you CHOSE.

Let’s look at what you’re choosing, ’cause I know you wanna THINK you’re that fully on her pathway gal who is ONLY true to what she came here to do, but here’s reality:

– You choose to worry about fancy tricks and things which you think are required to get your message out there
– You choose to concern yourself with showing up in places that don’t light you up and expand you, and doing so in a WAY that does not light you up and expand you, but sure sure – you can adjust to it and drink it up nicely with a spoon, even pretend you like it, if you must
– You choose to be eternally focused on BUILDING, when you’re not even really BEING

And that’s the thing, isn’t it? That last one there. We could go on and on with the list of all the ways you’re trying to do all the teeny tiny detail bits you THINK are required for your success instead of just doing the ACTUAL mofo thing of being you, but why bother when all that matters is –

FAIL TO BE AND THE GAME DOESN’T MATTER ANYWAY AND NOR WILL IT WORK

Look around, at the most successful, inspiring, soul-shifting, game-changing, WORLD creatin’ people you know or see.

They are fully IN the thing of being them.

They let themselves be SUPPORTED as far as all the details and moving parts of the thing.

They’re not trying to build the damn stage while also performing on it! They just started to ALL in perform before there even WAS a stage. They planted their damn leader flag and just went for it. The structures and supports and yep even the marketing and branding and selling and what-not all FOLLOWED that.

And when it works best?

It’s not because there is the best-est system in the world operating like a motor beneath the wings of that amazing badass person who peeps just wanna listen to, hear from, be impacted by, buy tickets to see.

It’s because the person is so damn magnetic in their BEING-ness, that they’d draw a crowd and end up selling tickets just by standing on a box in the gardens.

If you don’t have it in you to have people shut up, listen, draw closer, eyes wide open and jaw slightly hanging (or roaring in laughter) just when you get your YOU flow on,

then what in the actual fuck are you trying to build support for, a system for, growth for, anyway?

Look –

there’s nothing wrong with learning how to market, sell, build.

I’d even highly recommend it!

It’s a great thing to know how to do many of the ‘jobs’ that go into supporting the diva that is YOU,

and then merrily hand ’em over to other people.

But whether or not you do learn all that stuff or no, one thing is certain:

If there’s no star to support then we’ve got a damn good stadium, shiny pretty tickets, and popcorn sellers all at the ready but NOTHING INTERESTING TO WATCH,

no magnetism to give AF about,

etc.

Do you feel me?

Here is the reality. About what occurs for the scary vast majority of born for it leaders, performers, messengers, game-changers, and maybe, you –

they give their life for trying to figure out every tiny little detail of what goes in to having a successful business or life,

and they fail to ever actually give their life for what it was given to them for.

So shut up.
Sit your fine ass down.

And go be the damn message.

It’s what you came here to do.

You have no more time left to live the wrong life.

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