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Money Mindset, Success Mindset


I was talking with one of my badass clients yesterday on her 1:1 call and diving into why it is that she felt so STUCK and basically a little bit bleach about things in her business right now.

Thing is … everything’s working. WELL. Helluva lot more than well, as a matter of fact!

There is ZERO doubt she’s gonna build a million dollar biz, and frankly that’s just a jumping off point.

We spent a good bit of time talking about why she’s not feeling in the zone, and trying to figure out the problem. Problem was … we couldn’t figure the problem OUT!

We went through her offers …

Pricing …

What she REALLY wanted to be selling …


And nothing was really JIVING, you know? As far as feeling like, YES, that’s why I feel so stuck! We even went through some personal life stuff and the REALLY big problem here (and this sounds a little silly to say) …

She’s kinda got her shit sorted. BIG time. We’ve worked on so much unleveling already this year that there’s not that much left to really have to get moving.

Things are smooth.
Things are sailing.
Income is flowing and GROWING.
Things are working!


Are fucking boring.

Okay, well maybe THAT’S a bit harsh, but do you know what I’m saying? Have you ever felt that way? Or perhaps you’ve not really thought about it, but lemme ask you something –

Do you think that feeling BLAH is always a symptom of something being OFF, or do you think it could also be how you end up feeling when there’s nothing really CHALLENGING and BIG DEAL in your life that you’re chasing after?

My client’s life is definitely not BORING, in fact it is seriously high level and badass, and hard worked for!!

But yet …

It’s become (sorry to say if you’re not yet at this point, but if you ARE then I know you get this) …


It’s easy.
To make money.
To know that she’ll go to the next level.
It’s all just of COURSE.

She’s figured this whole be yourself and hustle online thing OUT.

Wanna know a secret?

ME TOO. And I was starting to get a bit bored too, for a while there, before I figured out what I needed to do in order to spice things UP again.

Of course when I say it’s all just ‘of course’, I don’t mean that there’s no issues, ever. Shit happens. Launches don’t always go according to plan. ETCETERA.

But at a certain point in online business, seeing that sort of stuff as a PROBLEM would be equivalent to seeing it as a problem if your kids messed up the playroom which you just cleaned.

It might be annoying, frustrating, etc.

But it’s hardly a PROBLEM, it’s just something that needs fixing; if you feel like it.

At a certain point in online business there’s pretty much NO so-called ‘failure’ or struggle which feels like more of a big deal than that! It’s just something that needs fixing.

Deal with it.
Move on.




Thing is … people are MADE for struggle. For triumph THROUGH struggle, not just for reinventing the God damn wheel every day!

It’s one obvious reason why entrepreneurs repeatedly fuck things up, or crash DOWN their income once they first start making it.

Ever done that?

Of COURSE you have!!

But then we get sick of the whole bullshit money mindset thing (takes a while, sometimes!) and we figure that shit out and decide to NEVER AGAIN let money fear rule us.

Which is awesome.

But also a problem!

Because if you’re not gonna use your fear-based money mindset shit as a reason to need to boost adrenaline back up again, what the hell ARE you gonna use?

Gonna need to create a new problem, aren’t you?!

Except … we’re SO damn good at unleveling in this game that for every new default problem / pattern / sabotage that comes up we just learn how to deal with it and move on from it!!

IT’S MADNESS. Eliminating problems like a freaking motherfucker until life is PERFECT.

Which, honestly, even though the pesky things do still pop up from time to time, is exactly what I’ve done.

As has my client.

Perfectly smooth.
Perfectly functional.
Perfectly –


Where’s the THRILL, baby? I need the thrill!

And so do you.

So, well, I guess, the thing IS, if you wanted to, you can totally CREATE that thrill by continuing to revert to your PROBLEM and SABOTAGE inducing behaviour …

But, well, that’s kind of STUPID.

So let me cut this short and make it simple for you –

You gotta stop aiming for the obvious shit gorgeous.

A million dollars? Cool .. but we both know you’re on track for that already.


So what’s it gonna take then, to EXCITE you (and this is what I asked my client) –

2 million?

Well …


I mean –




And here is what it comes down to:

You gotta get tapped back in to your BIG vision for what you want. That next level shit so big and bold and brave you can’t even barely believe you’d dare to dream of it!

Let alone believe it.

Let alone DO it.

Can I tell you something?

I freaking OWNED my big vision stuff again over the past 6 months.

I’d put it aside.
Life was good …
And I still had goals!

But it wasn’t fucking AMAZING, you know? I wasn’t flying HIGH, you know?

I wasn’t feeling the thrill of the CHASE, and as a result I simply wasn’t enjoying my business as much as I could be.

NOW … I have this big.motherfucking.BADASS.goal in my mind all day, and every day.

It’s scary.
It’s actually TERRIFYING.
It’s AWESOME, to even think about.
And it sure as shit is NOT boring.

So because that’s there I’m able to be present and in attendance in my every DAY business, you know?

I am in LOVE with it again.

As it should be.
As it must be.
As I like it!

So if you’re a BIG dreamer like me … and you know that you were actually born for MORE (as my clients certainly do!) … and you suspect maybe there’s stuff you want and are MEANT to create which you’re not owning … and things are feeling a little BORING?

Might be time to lock down that big vision again.

Your million dollar goal might be COOL AS SHIT to achieve, and I’ll celebrate it right alongside you.

But honey?
That ain’t the real shit.
It’s boring.

Find what’s true.
Find you.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.